It’s that time of year again. Time to dust off those graduation caps, untangle the tassels, and congratulate the efforts and achievements of our senior classes. Congrats to all Class of 2023 graduates. We wish you the best as you take what you have learned to make your mark on the world! Here are a few thoughts that have been running through my head these past few weeks as graduation ceremonies come and go:
As this new crop of eager young minds enters the workforce, it’s important to see the bigger picture of what really matters in today’s fast-paced and ever-changing world. Young people, strive for the best job position possible but realize that a career is a process that needs to be developed and nurtured. Be open to training, have an open mind, and be willing to adapt. Positions are temporary. Ranks and titles are limited, but the way you treat people will always be remembered. Remember also to treat yourself well. Live a healthy lifestyle. Find the best recipe that allows you to balance your job and life. Will you live to work or work to live?
Along the same lines, if you realize a position or a company is no longer supporting your growth or well-being, develop an exit strategy. The longer you dedicate time and energy to what is not for you, the longer you postpone what is. Andre Young, author and speaker, says “You can’t put a price on peace of mind.” Wise words.
The future and impact of AI are still a bit fuzzy, but we need to start taking notice of how it will affect our lives and our jobs. We are entering an era where it might not be about what you know, as AI can handle a lot of the skills and technical sides of a job. Instead, there is a bigger spotlight on the importance of how you treat people, how you form and sustain relationships, and how you show empathy toward others. As educators, we are starting to see this more and more in our schools with refined learning objectives, student well-being, and values education.
Make yourself a priority once in a while. It’s not selfish, it’s necessary. I have seen more and more research and publications revolving around the topic of emotional wellness and healthy mindfulness in the workforce now than ever before. Get in the habit of assessing your happiness, contributions, and impact in your circles. The Johari Window is a great self-reflection that helps me with this.
At certain points in your life (and it could happen on a random day), you will notice that you are changing. You will find that you are surprised at times by the way you think, react, or even in the decisions you make. Don’t be afraid of change. Trust that it’s leading you to a new beginning.
The world around us is changing, but genuine happiness and healthy relationships still hold as much weight as they always have. Graduates, the fun is just starting, congratulations!
Mark Dominguez 